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Originally posted by cyberr1981:
In the past when I first started working, I really regretted being too naive and stupid!!I thought by being helpful to ppl, someday when I need their help, they will help me. I also confide my problems and honest opinions about the boss to some colleagues. Maybe I shouldn't expect any returns, but I also never expect those ppl to bad-mouth me.
Guess I can only blame myself for being too innocent and naive back in those years. Now, I maintain a distant relationship with my present colleagues.
No. U r not stupid & naive. U r being too kind & honest to those scumbags. Juz ignore those bunch of pseudo-cultivated educated creeps.
Dun hv to help them. Let them rot.
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Originally posted by cyberr1981:
After going thru so much with people, I’ve learnt that the worst investment is efforts, time and money “invested” in maintaining human relationships. I’ve read and seen for myself how fragile human relations are and once broken, it is like a broken vase. Even if fixed back, there’ll still be cracks and scars, never as good like before.
Whenever I joined a new company, I’ve been “pulled” by different colleagues to join their group/gang. The victim of backstab, will be mouthed until him/her to no value and only negative things. They told me all the bad things about this person and that person and to be careful of them. But when I actually interacted with that “evil person”, I find that he/she is not as bad as the colleagues bad-mouthed. Maybe a few character flaws, but who doesn’t have character flaws?
Read before about when a person is in a bad plight like bankrupt, all his “so-called blossom” friends left him, all relatives avoid him like plague. Then what’s the point of making friends and having relatives? Then I rather have no friends, no relatives. Which is true as whenever I’m in trouble, I am my own benefactor. No one has really helped me.
To those who begged to differ, saying that friends and relatives are important, are you really so sure that your so called friends will help you when in SERIOUS need? Not say buying lunch for you, doing small things, but making BIG BIG sacrifices!
So far, since secondary school, I never have any REAL friends. Just hi-bye friends and my life is still fine. I really felt for those who spent money, time and efforts to help friends but when they themselves need their friends’ help, all the “friends” just run away and leave all the misfortune for himself to handle.
This is so sad but true of society. I don’t intend to make new friends and don’t expect anyone to help me when I’m in trouble. I don’t really need friends/relatives!!!!
Share d same sentiments & hv been thru' similar situation as u mention in d thread. In short, trust no one but urself.
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Juz flipping thru' wanbao tis evening. It says dat some car drivers hv used CNG instead of petrol in order 2 cut costs. Now d price of CNG is $1.40/L. But oni can go 2 jurong island, mandai link or jalan buroh 2 top up d gas.
Lastly, it oso states dat if u nid 2 travel for 300km, u nids 2 spend approx $30 for CNG supply.
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Originally posted by Noahtay:
haizz is it so hard to get a gf nowadays or dun wan to commit, just want to fuck and run then why not go geylang there more choice to chose from got china, vietnam, thai, malay and india sometime lucky got japanese or ang mo or korean
yah... true lor... TS is too lazy 2 do "shopping" in geylang...
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