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Hi Kelviz.GD:
I don't know how HDB will handle your complaints but I know that it takes a very serious view on people littering from their homes. If you can provide them with evidence that they throw things from their home (killer litter), I think they will take action.
Also, the New Paper would be more than happy to report on this matter but you need to put up with the media glare.
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Er... Twenty47...
So you are thinking of marriage now or separation? If you love the girl and you think she's the right one then mai tu liao... just get married and let the issues straighten themselves out by themselves... you think until so far about separation... It's like cursing your own marriage and saying that it won't work in the first place. I don't think you should start your "new life" in this manner.
Make an educated decision, don't 三心两意 (er... my Chinese correct right?) - like Nike advertisement says, "Just do it!"
Good luck and God Bless!

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Hi Upset Girl,
I guess guys just love the hunt and perhaps your husband is one of those guys who just want to ji siao girls but nothing serious would come out of it. I'm attached but I also make fun of my colleagues and friends because we are comfortable with one another. Our jokes don't go beyond "missing" each other and "thinking" of each other. But, at the end of the day, it's just fun and games - harmless banter - we don't engage in anything physical or sexual; only joking. No mention of hotels, dark corners or any such conotations.
From my own standpoint, if the joke gets out of hand, I would probably apologise to the girl and tell her that our jokes got out of hand and draw the line.
Do you notice any difference in your husband's behaviour of late? Maybe it's just his way of trying to "de-stress"? Maybe you should just observe him for a while and have a good talk with him. I believe that communications is very important in every relationship. Sometimes, even the slightest misunderstanding can result in something catastrophic.
Good luck and God Bless!
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